However, what should we say to the cat in our house in a short period of time becoming all-knowing about motherhood, but to the infinite inexperience of the superior and intelligent human beings? Isn't that proof that you're reading this article right now? “How can I become a better mother? Bırak Let us leave this question to our minds every day. This “sacred” profession, which you believe you don't already know, is confused by the wise people around you, hundreds of books, TV programs and many other factors that create information pollution. Don't be surprised if your cat looks at you where it is curled up with disdainful eyes…VariabilityWomen's maternal behavior varies considerably according to cultures and time. Although the basic maternal behaviors provided by the hormones are the same, the whole process of the relationship with the infant and the upbringing of the child is greatly influenced by the culture and social structure. For example, in Western societies, the baby's hugging, breastfeeding and contact with the mother's body are considerably reduced compared to eastern societies. In the West, the expectation of society is to raise independent, self-confident individuals. In Eastern societies, the weigher's knob slides to the other side; 5 until the age of breastfed children, do you think, did the parents of adolescents sleeping next ... considered that it is possible to strike a balance between the two positions but Turkey is not the balance of this synthesis, we see the mix of extremism. We often see that a mother who tries to make friends with her little child, pumps self-confidence, talks with her as a big person, chooses the most educators while playing, still breastfeeds, lies in the same bed, rules are put up and removed. It is not difficult to predict the sense of inadequacy that this mother, who is trying to do her best but cannot achieve the adjustment, cannot. You have heard or seen that the little boy, who tried to be given the most educational games, instead of making a jigsaw at home, lowered the jigsaw board and the glass frame, and returned to the cat in front of the other children. The solution is not to be a good Eastern or Western or to maintain a good balance. First of all, it is necessary to understand why mothers get so far away from their natural, instinctive abilities. At this point, we can of course talk about the impact of the rapidly changing structure of our society on young parents. However, the basic mistakes in child rearing can be corrected without fully understanding this change. If you are constantly trying to follow the most accurate method of raising your child and constantly consult with someone, shuffle books, watch TV programs, you are on the wrong track! The problem is that the sources of information referenced are wrong; why a mother is looking for so ann right ya or why she feels so inadequate. As mentioned above, our basic concerns lie in the fact that even the basic ability of a cat is so far from us. It is your own upbringing that determines your anxiety and therefore your motherhood skills. So everything that you worry about your child lies under your own psychological processes. Therefore, instead of doing what is best for your child, you should take steps to understand yourself and get help if necessary. Don't you have anything to do or know other than being peaceful and happy like cats? Of course we have a lot to learn, but one cannot learn when anxious.